Never say NEVER. It closes all doors to new possibilities.


100 Days to Carefree Confidence Challenge, Communicate With Confidence, Confidence, Presentation Skills, Public Speaking

Never say never. It’s a limiting word because the moment we say “never,” it’s like we’re shutting down all possibilities. The truth is, we don’t know everything, and life can change in a second, as we’ve all realized over the last couple of years. So, when we say, “I could never do that,” or “I’ll […]

Take breaks so you have SPACE to create even more.


100 Days to Carefree Confidence Challenge, Communicate With Confidence, Confidence, Public Speaking, Social Media

Take breaks to give yourself space to come up with brand-new ideas. It doesn’t matter what you’re doing, whether you’re writing your next book, creating a series of online videos, or preparing for a keynote presentation with extensive research and rehearsal. When we feel pressure, we often push ourselves to keep going without breaks. However, […]

Stay FLEXIBLE and lose expectations.


100 Days to Carefree Confidence Challenge, Communicate With Confidence, Confidence, Presentation Skills, Public Speaking

Stay flexible. This is crucial for our confidence because rigidity and fixed expectations can lead to stress when things change. If we tense up in response to these changes, we’ll radiate nervousness and stress, which can be off-putting and prevent us from delivering our message effectively. Additionally, if we’re destabilized by factors beyond our control, […]

Don’t say the word TRY. It implies you’ve already failed.


100 Days to Carefree Confidence Challenge, Communicate With Confidence, Confidence, Presentation Skills, Public Speaking

Don’t say the word “try.” It’s detrimental to our confidence. What does “try” actually imply? It suggests that you might attempt something but not succeed, or that you might fail. When we say, “I’ll try to do that,” we all know how it might turn out. Instead, say, “I’ll give it a shot,” “I’ll do […]