Never say NEVER. It closes all doors to new possibilities.


100 Days to Carefree Confidence Challenge, Communicate With Confidence, Confidence, Presentation Skills, Public Speaking

Never say never. It’s a limiting word because the moment we say “never,” it’s like we’re shutting down all possibilities. The truth is, we don’t know everything, and life can change in a second, as we’ve all realized over the last couple of years. So, when we say, “I could never do that,” or “I’ll […]

Stay FLEXIBLE and lose expectations.


100 Days to Carefree Confidence Challenge, Communicate With Confidence, Confidence, Presentation Skills, Public Speaking

Stay flexible. This is crucial for our confidence because rigidity and fixed expectations can lead to stress when things change. If we tense up in response to these changes, we’ll radiate nervousness and stress, which can be off-putting and prevent us from delivering our message effectively. Additionally, if we’re destabilized by factors beyond our control, […]

Don’t say the word TRY. It implies you’ve already failed.


100 Days to Carefree Confidence Challenge, Communicate With Confidence, Confidence, Presentation Skills, Public Speaking

Don’t say the word “try.” It’s detrimental to our confidence. What does “try” actually imply? It suggests that you might attempt something but not succeed, or that you might fail. When we say, “I’ll try to do that,” we all know how it might turn out. Instead, say, “I’ll give it a shot,” “I’ll do […]

Don’t downplay your achievements.


100 Days to Carefree Confidence Challenge, Communicate With Confidence, Confidence, Presentation Skills, Public Speaking

Don’t downplay your achievements. It’s terrible for your confidence if you’ve invested time, effort, energy, and love into something and then downplay the success when you achieve it. We need to celebrate our accomplishments because in doing so, we’re telling ourselves that it’s okay to feel good about our successes and to feel confident in […]